How Vibe-Based Matching Works
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How Vibe-Based Matching Works

Konectr TeamJanuary 3, 20256 min read

Beyond Demographics


Most apps match you based on demographics: age, location, maybe some basic interests.


But anyone who's made a great friend knows: vibe matters more than stats.


That's why we built vibe-based matching.


What Is a "Vibe"?


Your vibe is how you approach activities and socializing. It includes:


Energy Level

Are you looking for high-energy adventures or chill hangouts? A 6am trail run or a lazy coffee shop afternoon?


Social Style

Do you prefer deep 1-on-1 conversations or group energy? Lots of new faces or building with the same crew?


Activity Preferences

Not just WHAT you want to do, but HOW you want to do it. Competitive sports or casual games? Challenging hikes or scenic strolls?


How We Match


Step 1: Activity Selection

You pick what you want to do. This immediately filters to people interested in the same activity.


Step 2: Vibe Signals

We look at signals like:

  • Time of day preferences
  • Activity intensity choices
  • Past meetup patterns
  • Response styles

  • Step 3: Compatibility Score

    We calculate how likely you are to have a great time together, based on vibe alignment.


    Step 4: Group Composition

    When building small groups (2-4 people), we aim for complementary vibes – similar enough to connect, diverse enough to be interesting.


    What We Don't Use


    We're intentional about what we leave out:


  • Photos in matching: You see photos later, but they don't affect who you're matched with
  • Wealth indicators: No showing off job titles or fancy possessions
  • Popularity metrics: No follower counts or "hot or not" dynamics

  • The Results


    Our vibe-based approach leads to:


  • Higher meetup attendance: People actually show up
  • Better conversations: You have natural things to talk about
  • More repeat meetups: People want to hang out again
  • Real friendships: Not just acquaintances

  • Try It Yourself


    The best way to understand vibe matching is to experience it.


    Pick an activity. See who shows up. Feel the difference.


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